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Consulting in Highheels

Become a leader with impact

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Consulting in Highheels

  • Where to grow next in my leadership? Februar 5, 2021
  • Showing appreciation in virtual teams Januar 15, 2021
  • Laugh yourself successful Januar 8, 2021
  • Deal with your pain to become a better leader Januar 1, 2021
  • How to start a career in times of crisis Dezember 25, 2020

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  • Highheels

    The Most Fun Promotion Strategy No One Teaches You

    März 1, 2026 /

    Become the missing puzzle piece – on purpose. A lot of people think promotions happen because you work harder, longer, louder. Sometimes they do. But often, promotions happen because a senior leader looks at you and thinks: “If this person is in my orbit, my life gets easier — and my outcomes get better.” Not because you’re a helper.Not because you’re “nice.”But because you’re useful in a way that matters. Here’s one action that is both powerful and fun: Find what your leader is missing – and fill that gap with your strengths. Not by guessing what “the business needs.”But by spotting what your boss and seniors struggle with –…

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    Why Leadership Always Starts One-to-One

    Januar 18, 2026

    Grace Over Games: Leading the Person Who Tries to Undermine You

    Juni 9, 2025

    From the Sidelines to the Spotlight: What Your First Leadership Role Really Feels Like

    Juni 15, 2025
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    Build Your Personal C-Suite

    Februar 22, 2026 /

    Why your leadership gets easier (and stronger) when you stop trying to be everything There’s a quiet trap many leaders fall into. We build teams.We build org charts.We build governance. And then – without noticing – we also try to become the entire executive committee ourselves. We try to be the strategist and the culture carrier.The risk radar and the motivator.The calm adult and the one who brings the room to life. It looks responsible. It even looks capable. But it’s rarely sustainable. And it almost always leaves something underfed: the parts of leadership that don’t happen in meetings. Over time I learned a simple truth: The best leaders don’t…

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    The best is yet to come

    Januar 4, 2021

    I am in the wrong job

    Januar 7, 2020

    What social work on sunday morning at 6am taught me

    November 2, 2020
  • Highheels

    The Leader Who Loved Like Santa Claus – How I learned to protect team culture without burning out

    Februar 15, 2026 /

    There was a time when appreciation was my default operating system. I would wrap a Christmas present for every single person on my team.Handwritten cards. Personal words. Small details that said: I see you. I know what you carried this year. And I meant every word. Then my career grew. Suddenly it wasn’t 8 people. It was 20. Then 50.And alongside my team, there were clients. Stakeholders. Leadership peers. Family. Friends. At some point I looked at my December and realized: I had turned into a full-time Santa Claus. And what crushed my heart wasn’t the workload.It was the fear of losing what I knew was a success factor: A…

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    My job adds value

    Mai 13, 2019

    Do you have ‚career DNA‘?

    September 20, 2020

    What social work on sunday morning at 6am taught me

    November 2, 2020
  • Highheels

    Problems Never Go Away — They Only Change Their Shape

    Februar 8, 2026 /

    There is a particular kind of conversation leaders tend to avoid. Not because it is technically difficult. Not because it requires a formal decision. But because it is uncomfortable. It is the conversation where opinions surface. Where loyalties become visible. Where it becomes clear who stands on which side of an argument — and why. These are often not decision conversations yet. They are alignment conversations. Exploratory. Early. Seemingly harmless. And precisely because of that, they are easy to ignore. The Quiet Calculus of Avoidance Most leaders do not consciously decide to avoid these moments. The avoidance happens through a quiet internal calculation: What if this person no longer likes…

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    Why should I even head for a career?

    September 6, 2021

    Why you need to defend your team culture

    März 1, 2021

    Why leadership is lacking on partner level

    August 2, 2020
  • Highheels

    When Words Sound Right — But Feel Wrong

    Februar 1, 2026 /

    “…I’m very happy to share this.” “I’m so pleased with what we’ve achieved.” “Thank you all for your contribution.” The words are right. The tone is polite. And still — it feels off. You can sense it immediately. The faces stay neutral. No reactions in the room or virtual call. It’s not resistance. It’s distance. And in moments like this, the quiet question hangs in the air: Was this ever really meant? When leaders speak into a room, there are a few things that can go wrong. And one of the most common ones is this: we speak from ourselves instead of from the people we are speaking to. We…

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    This crisis kills my empathy

    Dezember 14, 2020

    Consider LOVE in business

    November 22, 2021

    Successful team leads focus on these topics

    Mai 18, 2020
  • Highheels

    Why Leadership Always Starts One-to-One

    Januar 18, 2026 /

    Many people associate leadership with scale. With responsibility for many. With titles, headcount, and large organisations. And yes — careers often grow in that direction. But what is often overlooked is this: you don’t learn how to lead 200 people by starting with 200 people. You learn it by leading one. If you want to lead a larger group one day, you need to be clear on how you are steering people in general. Once you have learned how to lead small groups you can start scaling – and correspondingly adjusting your style. That’s why every sustainable leadership model starts small. At some point, you will need your circle of…

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    Will your tombstone inspire others?

    Dezember 17, 2018

    How to handle a missed promotion

    November 15, 2021

    You are not good enough

    November 4, 2019
  • Highheels

    It always starts with you

    Januar 11, 2026 /

    Large transformations might look like complex machinery — dozens of teams, hundreds of people, timelines, milestones, dependencies. But beneath all the moving parts, transformation leadership begins exactly where small-team leadership begins: with you. Your clarity becomes the organisation’s clarity. Your discipline becomes the team’s discipline. Your consistency becomes the culture’s consistency. If you are not on point, your programme won’t be on point. This is not theory — this is physics. The behaviour of a leader cascades, always. Your people look to you for: How you show up. How you communicate. How you plan. How you prioritise. How you handle pressure. How you treat others. And they follow that cue.…

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    From the Sidelines to the Spotlight: What Your First Leadership Role Really Feels Like

    Juni 15, 2025

    The best is yet to come

    Januar 4, 2021

    Turning bad experiences into valuable lessons

    Juli 8, 2020
  • Highheels

    Leading Large-Scale Transformation: What Changes When Size Changes

    Januar 5, 2026 /

    In a world of quick wins and small agile projects, the principles of leadership often feel familiar: clear direction, open communication, accountability, trust. They serve us well when our team is a handful of people—three, five, ten. But what happens when your scope becomes hundreds, your stage becomes an entire programme, your team becomes a network of teams? When the scale grows, you don’t abandon your leadership values — you amplify and adapt them. You still stand for: we do what we say, we say what we do, we communicate openly, we deliver on commitments. But you must recognise: a large-scale transformation isn’t a project with more people. It’s a…

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    Doing a career is easy [1/2]

    November 6, 2023

    Words have power

    Juni 17, 2019

    Do I need to leave my job to follow my dream?

    Mai 3, 2021
  • Highheels

    Bringing Your Whole Self to the Room

    Dezember 14, 2025 /

    She had been in consulting for five years. High pace. High speed. High impact. Promotions earned, recognition visible, reputation rising. From the outside, everyone could see her success. But inside, she sensed something unspoken — a quiet knowing that there was more of her still waiting to surface. Before consulting, she had lived a different life. A life on courts and fields, not in meeting rooms. A life where she coached professional athletes, where bodies moved with purpose and vision was something you felt, not something you put on a slide. And here she was now — a consultant, a leader in the making, carrying this whole previous chapter inside…

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    My job adds value

    Mai 13, 2019

    It always starts with you

    Januar 11, 2026

    Get into first row!

    März 25, 2019
  • Highheels

    When Challenge Turns into Clarity

    November 16, 2025 /

    He sat back in his chair, a little tense. The group had just finished a leadership exercise, the kind that doesn’t test your skills but your skin. After a pause, he said quietly, “Whenever I talk to you, I feel so challenged.” The room went still for a moment. They had known each other for half a year — regular exchanges, deep discussions, moments of friction and reflection. She had a habit of asking questions. Not easy ones. Not rhetorical ones. Questions that cut through excuses. Questions that made you look inwards before looking out. At first, he felt exposed. Almost defensive. As if every question was an attempt to…

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    When Saying “No” Isn’t an Option: How to Handle Tough Leadership Requests with Grace

    Mai 26, 2025

    How a ‚well done‘ feedback kills your career

    Juli 12, 2020

    Spread the Passion

    November 10, 2018
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