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Who is your heir?

While doing a career we can be so focussed on our own success that we hardly think of the next generation. But this one-way-street thinking incorporates the risk of missing…

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Oktober 11, 2021
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Get ahead between years by reflection – a practical guide

As the year is coming to an end it is a good opportunity to take some time to reflect. In this article you will find inspiration on how to use…

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Dezember 30, 2019
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How to find a good coach

Coaching supports change. You might want to bring your career to the next level or you are in need of a decision. Whenever you aspire change, coaching is a helpful…

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November 9, 2020
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How to … appreciate people

Appreciation needs to be precise, immediate and honest in order to motivate and touch a person's heart.

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Dezember 2, 2018
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When Saying “No” Isn’t an Option: How to Handle Tough Leadership Requests with Grace

“You can’t really say no to this, you know.” The words still echo in my mind — half a suggestion, half a command. If you’ve ever been asked to take…

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Mai 26, 2025

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Consulting in Highheels

  • Where to grow next in my leadership? Februar 5, 2021
  • Showing appreciation in virtual teams Januar 15, 2021
  • Laugh yourself successful Januar 8, 2021
  • Deal with your pain to become a better leader Januar 1, 2021
  • How to start a career in times of crisis Dezember 25, 2020

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    Freedom redefined

    Dezember 7, 2025 /

    She once believed freedom meant palm trees. Warm sand. A laptop in a beach bag and the promise of working from anywhere, anytime. So she chose the travel industry — the world at her fingertips, assignments in sunlit places, pictures that looked like postcards. She moved lightly from team to team, country to country, believing this was the life she had dreamed of. But after a few months in each new role, she noticed something she hadn’t expected: the learning curve flattened. The excitement dimmed. And sometimes, the teams she joined didn’t truly work together — they only occupied the same place. Palm trees can’t fix a team that doesn’t…

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    The Power of Small Things

    November 30, 2025 /

    It began on a small Danish island. Waves rolling in and out like slow breathing. Soft sand under bare feet. The kind of morning where the world feels gentle, almost quiet enough to hear your own thoughts. He knelt down, opened an empty box, and started filling it — handful by handful — with sand. Nothing rushed. Nothing dramatic. Just a simple, almost childlike act. Someone walked by and asked, “What are you doing with that?” He looked up, smiled, and said, “Preparing for something.” At the time, no one knew he would soon speak on a stage. No one knew this small act would become the heartbeat of his…

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    Leading by opening stages

    November 23, 2025 /

    It began as a simple idea while planning our off-site. We were going to speak about freedom — what it means, what it feels like, how it shapes the way we lead. And I felt drawn to ask a particular colleague to share his view. Not someone with a big title. Not someone who usually steps onto stages. But someone who leads quietly. Consistently. Through dedication, not hierarchy. When I approached him, he looked both surprised and thoughtful. And then he said something that made me pause: “Sharing this in German… it feels like I’ve come full circle.” Only then did I realise how significant this moment was for him.…

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    When Challenge Turns into Clarity

    November 16, 2025 /

    He sat back in his chair, a little tense. The group had just finished a leadership exercise, the kind that doesn’t test your skills but your skin. After a pause, he said quietly, “Whenever I talk to you, I feel so challenged.” The room went still for a moment. They had known each other for half a year — regular exchanges, deep discussions, moments of friction and reflection. She had a habit of asking questions. Not easy ones. Not rhetorical ones. Questions that cut through excuses. Questions that made you look inwards before looking out. At first, he felt exposed. Almost defensive. As if every question was an attempt to…

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    When a Team Member Falls Short: How to Lead Without Losing Heart

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    Millennial? Don’t get hooked by this trait

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    From Anonymous Notes to Open Appreciation

    November 9, 2025 /

    It’s more than ten years ago. I can still see the conference room — too dark, too quiet. I had been asked to design the agenda for a department’s off-site. The leaders wanted to lift the mood, to spark something positive in a team that missed a personal touch. So I built a day full of rhythm and light: exercises on collaboration, time for feedback, moments of laughter in between. And at the end, I wanted to close with something small but meaningful — a gesture of appreciation. Each person would write a few kind words for another. A note to take home, a reminder that what we do matters.…

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    When Ambition Feels Like a Liability – And why it’s not.

    Juli 14, 2025 /

    Lately, I found myself in a room full of young professional women. Bright, talented, ambitious. And yet… the air felt tight. The tension was almost physical—like their shoulders were carrying something invisible but heavy. As I began to share my story, the ups and downs of my own career, I noticed something subtle: the room softened. Eyes lifted. Breaths deepened. Something shifted. Later, over coffee, they told me why. Just before our session, they had sat through a career talk where someone told them, “It doesn’t matter whether you get promoted this year or next. It’ll happen eventually.” Meant to be reassuring, perhaps. But what they heard was: “Your ambition…

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    Why we should still lead with encouragement — even when it feels like no one is encouraging us

    Juli 6, 2025 /

    There are days when I leave meetings—internal ones, client ones, even 1:1s with people I deeply respect—and I feel… invisible. No “thank you.” No “great point.” No eye contact, even. Just a blur of agendas, deadlines, decisions. And me, sitting there, wondering: Does anyone even notice how hard I’m trying? If you’ve ever been in that space, I want to tell you—you’re not alone. But here’s what I’ve learned after years of consulting, coaching, and navigating boardrooms and back-to-back calls: We all want to be seen. And ironically, we’re all waiting for someone else to go first. The Silent Frustration It’s deeply human to crave acknowledgment. A simple “thank you”…

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    Why Leadership Can Feel Isolating (and How to Stay Connected)

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    Suddenly, I was no longer one of the team. I was leading it. There was a beautiful pride in that moment—but also a quiet void. Meetings changed. Conversations shifted. People started looking to me for answers, but I still had so many questions. And somehow, it felt like I had to figure it all out… alone. If you’ve ever stepped into a leadership role and thought, “Why does no one talk about how lonely this is?”—you’re not alone in that thought either. We often assume that once we’ve “made it” into leadership, everything clicks into place. Especially when we’re surrounded by more experienced leaders who seem calm, composed, and confident.…

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    The Leap: From Senior to Leadership — Why It’s Not Just About the Next Role

    Juni 22, 2025 /

    Today, I listened to a podcast from a well-known comedian. Not exactly your typical career guru, but his words hit me with surprising precision. He shared that everything changed for him when he decided to prioritize himself — not his career, not the next gig, not even success. Himself. For him, that meant going to the gym, showing up on time, preparing his material like it really mattered. The result? He didn’t just become physically stronger — he started taking himself more seriously. And in turn, others started doing the same. And I thought: that’s exactly the moment when careers take off — when we stop waiting to be discovered,…

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    From the Sidelines to the Spotlight: What Your First Leadership Role Really Feels Like

    Juni 15, 2025 /

    You thought it would feel powerful. Like finally having a seat at the table. Like being the one who decides, not the one who follows. And yes, it does feel different. But probably not in the way you expected. Your first leadership role is rarely the victory lap you imagined when you were still working your way up — delivering results, trying to be seen, and occasionally wondering why your boss acts the way they do. Because the truth is: when you step into leadership for the first time, the world tilts. It doesn’t revolve around you anymore. It revolves around others. And that… can be both humbling and beautiful.…

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